Approach Women Quickly to Get Rid of Approach Anxiety
Usually a woman will consider you to be a scared little boy if you wait longer than two minutes after the eye contact just because she is using that contact with you as a test to see if you’re a man or a child.
After you have finally gotten up the nerve to talk to her after two minutes of her wondering whether you will talk to her or not, her attraction to you has dissipated for you and now you will be in a defensive mode with her instead of an offensive mode.
When you are just starting out in the seduction game and you still have some degree of approach anxiety, you should still be concerned about not putting up any unnecessary roadblocks on your way to mastering the art of seduction because that will have a detrimental impact on your overall game, now and in the future.…
Defeat Approach Anxiety by Improving a Girl’s Day
Most guys that suffer from approach anxiety are under the distinct impression that they are “bothering” a woman when they first ask them questions, no matter how in-direct or benign those questions are to her.
If you are having those same fears about bothering women with your openers to them, you really have to start getting out of that mindset by affirming to yourself that you can improve any girl’s day with your conversation with her, and not destroy it.
The best way to go about this is by assuring yourself that you have quality conversation skills that will make a woman laugh or will captivate her with your story-telling abilities. But what if you don’t actually have any of these abilities? Can you still believe that you can improve a woman’s day just by talking to her?
Yes, you can. Even when your conversation is not as scintillating as…
Eliminate Fears by Working on Your Voice Control
Approach anxiety can be fixed, just like anything else in your life. But it must be fixed by improving your overall seduction game when you start working on improving important techniques that are already in your arsenal.
When you start eliminating any whiny voice patterns that you may have had in the past, you are on your way to getting rid of the fear of the approach with women because you will start developing a more powerful voice when speaking to the opposite sex.
You can even start hearing your own voice commanding women to look in your direction at a far bigger rate than ever before when you start using a voice control routine every day when you first get up in the morning.
This is a method of generating a kind of voice affirmation that you can use while looking in the mirror. Write down something like, “I…
Four Great Steps in Defeating Approach Anxiety
Approach anxiety can be defined as a genuine fear of introducing yourself to a beautiful woman because of a sense of failure on your part. After all, you are not a rock star or a famous movie actor so why would this incredibly hot woman be the slightest bit interested in someone like you?
Have no fears from this moment on. I am going to go over five very specific ways in which you can combat this horrible social disease from your frame of mind that should last for the rest of your life.
This will not be the last posting on this topic, so make sure you go to this website on a daily basis to read other posts on how to get rid of approach anxiety and other shyness disorders.
1. ACCLIMATE YOURSELF TO YOUR SURROUNDINGS
When you initially walk into a loud nightclub and you are…
Get Out of Your Own Head and You Will Eliminate Approach Anxiety
One thing that experience in the seduction game has taught me is to just accept who I am without worrying too much about it. Does that sound like a poor attitude to you? Well, it shouldn’t because you should accept yourself as who you are as well.
That does not mean you should not try to improve yourself on a daily basis. Quite the contrary. You should ALWAYS be trying to improve your positive traits and get rid of your negative traits, but constantly having thoughts in your head that you are not worthy of having a hot girl be interested in you will ensure that your approach anxiety will never go away.
If you can act more confident, more self-assured and take the lead during every conversation with a woman, your biggest fears of failure will eventually leave you like petals falling off of a daffodil. A leader has…
