Are You a Person Who Goes For the Girl? Or Not?

Are you a guy who initiates the situation and ask her out? Or are you the one who prefers to wait for the right moment until she makes a move?

When a man has “go for it” characteristics, they tend to be very controlling in dating aspects. If you are someone who belongs to this category, you tend to personalize your statements, “I am going to Derek’s party.” If you are someone who prefers to wait for her to make a move, you will say, “Derek invited me to his party.” In this manner, you like to delegate responsibility to others and let someone else make your decisions.

Personally, in my capacity of a modern woman, I can safely assume that most women are the more “career-minded” type. Therefore, if you do belong to the category where you prefer others to make decisions for you, you can have a lot of trouble courting the woman you want.

Let me break down my reasoning into pieces so I can explain better. For example, you need to make a decision by asking her out. If you are lucky enough (if she asks you out instead), you will still need to decide where you want to go.

If you ask me, dating is all about making decisions. When you are dating a girl, she wants you to make decisions for the first few dates. And this includes where the both of you want to have your dinner, to do something enjoyable together and to spend some quiet time together. In short, she wants you to decide every single little detail!

But, why is this so?

This is because she wants to see whether you have any similar interests as her. If you have similar interests with her, she will include you in her “potential partnership list”. Here is a simple trick, even if you don’t have common interests, you can do some basic research (by asking her friends right from the start) and make it as though the both of you share the same interests! In this way, you are able to make your outings with her as meaningful as possible and she will consider very seriously whether you are the guy for her.

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